I had a refreshing experience last night. Despite the fact that I had first cum (sic) across the man on an Internet dating site, and we had arranged for him to sleep over on his first visit (!!!), we had both concluded that there was no sexual spark whatsoever between us!
Which would not have been so amazing if it weren’t for the fact that Andrew is one of the most handsome men I had ever lain my eyes on… And well-mannered to boot! That’s besides being well-read and just fun to be with!
Someone to watch tv with on a Saturday night, and spend hours talking on the merits of Tolkien’s work… And giving hugs and not feeling any pressure at all! I’d never thought I’d say this on the Net, but I rather liked that feeling. Of “safeness” with a man! And no, he’s not gay, so it definitely isn’t that!
Last night we said good night, each to our own bed. We woke up at the same time this morning and had coffee together… He invited me to his place for a weekend if I ever needed to chill! A farm house out near Potgietersrus (or whatever it’s called these days!) in
I think I’ll take him up on that offer some time…