It was a sad day today, in the sense that I have lost trust in someone that I had considered to be a friend. Sad that the friendship soured, but also sad that that person will have to work extremely hard to regain my trust.
What gets my goat in this situation, however, is that the friend in question doesn't seem to think that he did anything wrong by not asking my permission and tried to make ME feel like some kind of criminal for being angry at him. I feel used. And THAT is inexcusable.
Oh, well, time to find new friends, isn't it???